The following list of links will take you to websites, books, and "games" offer highly practical resources for having hard conversations about dying and death planning.
American Bar Association Tool Kit for Health Care Advance Planning
Links to State-Specific Advance Directive Forms
Portable Medical Orders for Terminally Ill Persons (POLST)
I'm Dead. Now What? Important Information about My Belongings, Business Affairs, and Wishes
Sorry For Your Loss--It's Me: My Final Thoughts, Wishes, Important Information About My Belongings, Business Affairs and Stubborn Opinions for Those I Leave Behind